I need help and need to know whether this is a mental illness or something less serious.
I don't feel as though I have a personality and constantly try to invent a personality by faking my voice and emotions.
I'm constantly react in a forced and non genuine way, I seem to have lost my personality and don't know how to talk and communicate effectively.
I'm on a work trial and it is effecting my communication on the phone and with work staff, people are starting to realise that I'm not genuine and they are beginning to hate me.
I'm constantly aware of my presence, but I'm just don;t know how to comminicate to otther people without forming a false personality and voice.
How do I act normal
What is wrong with me?
I don't recognise myself anymore and can't relate myself to the past.
Help, Help, Help.
Answer:
I wrote an article that hopefully will give you insight on your situation. Best of luck!
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...
Go out with some people from work and drink like 7 beers, and everyone will love you.Alcohol is the answer temporarly...Maybe if you go out and get drunk with some other people, and they realise your pretty cool, maybe you won't have to pretend to be anyone else...if you still have a problem then see your doctor you could have social anxiety and zolof or whatever that stuff is can fix it.
look up borderline personality disorder.
one of the symptoms is:
Distortions in cognition and sense of self can lead to frequent changes in long-term goals, career plans, jobs, friendships, gender identity, and values. Sometimes people with BPD view themselves as fundamentally bad, or unworthy. They may feel unfairly misunderstood or mistreated, bored, empty, and have little idea who they are.
Sounds to me as though your showing signs of skitophrenia (MInd the spelling) or you are extremly depressed. Do you have panic / anxiety attacks? I know these symptoms as i have recently been through the same sort of thing , im now on medicationfor lfe although i am myself again . Go to the docs and speak to them and they will refer you if need be. 40 mg citalopram would help.
i would have a nice holliday relax and that might losen you up
No, you sound to be like a normal american citizen
It sounds as though you may be going through personal identity crisis. Talk to a professional as they can help you sort out your thoughts and feelings. Try not to become discouraged as this does occur occassionally. Follow your own instincts and what your likes and dislikes are for start. You really do know yourself best and no one needs to change themselves. Perhaps you are trying to "fit in". Talk to someone. Contact mental health in you area.
It sounds like you're under a lot of stress. You need to go see a doctor and tell her/him what you've posted here. They should refer you to a counselor for testing. Testing should help you identify what's going on. It sounds like counseling would be helpful to you. There may be medication that can help, too. Call your doctor today. If you call and talk to the nurse, the doctor may be able to make a referral and get you to someone who can help right away.
Don't continue to suffer. Life is too short for that. Do something about it today, even if it's just making the appointment.
Find your voice don't feel bad for some reason you feel iniquity.
Hi there
to me this sounds unclear, it could be something such as depression, or it could be something more complex although treatable. i think you should contact your GP though, and not rely on an answer from us.
I think you are probably suffering from low self esteem. You may be doing this because you are nervous or because you want people to like you or accept you.
You can get books on how to improve self esteem or you could go on a confidence course.
I am not sure how old you are but i felt more like that when i was younger. If you have identified a problem you are half way there. Try to be yourself if possible but it is difficult at work as you try to put on a work persona because of your work duties and what the company expects of you. You need to develop your own style and not copy others.
Many people are not as confident as they seem and their confidence may not be how they feel inside. Some people act as if they are confident that is they imagine how a confident person would act and take on those characteristics.
You are not a fake you are just learning about yourself and where you fit in. It is hard if where you are working is very competitive and people have cliques or groups they hang round in if you feel you need to be in with the in crowd to be accepted. You have said what you are doing is not working so try something else. If you get overanxious about it it could make it worse. Try to chill a little and work out who you want to be rather than what you are expected to be.
This could be a symptom of many different things. Maybe:
1) depression. Maybe you have been depressed for some time with out actually realising.dignosing it, which result in you feeling like this now
2) Autistic spectrum - where one of the symptoms would include the inability to form relationships/friendships, and then need to compensate by rehearsed - non genuine conversation, in order to fit in with society.
3) very low self esteem and just not knowing who youare. Maybe CBT would help with this? Might be worth looking into?? Cognitive behavoiur therapy.
Talk to your GP about this. You dont want to go thorugh life feeling like this, 1 in 3 people suffer with mental health, so dont feel alone or like you are the first to tell a GP you feel like this. Maybe you will be referred to the mental health team, so they can assess you.
see a dcotor you might be sufering borderlin bipolar disorder
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