i a,m depressed today. i will mostlikely get no financial aid for college, i have no money in my bank account and evry thing just seems too hard. some times i wish i had taken that illegal job in washington, not going to say what it was but it would have kept my bank account full.
i have no girl friend, i liike like crap and i hate my family.
so tired of this crap.
i am 20 male college student.
what can i do to feel batter?
no dont normally feel this way, but today its just too much fore some reasion. i am sure i will feel better later.
i go to work later today and i have to crush cans, but some of the cans are not empty so when i crush them they will flood all over the room so that should be fun.
i am just really really depresed right now.
Answer:
Boo hoo. Don't be selfish. You're not the only person who has a bad life. Get over it.
we all go through these days. Believe me Im in the same situation with my school as well big time, But I leave it all in Gods hands and he takes care of it, The Lord always provided at the right time, so I just dont worry about it. Ive been ion school for 3 yrs and God has always provided. And Im from a very low budget family. with no scholar ship or financial aid.
Your first line of the question read,
"I am depressed today"
What about tomorrow? Wait and see how you feel tomorrow. It will be another day and things will work themselves out on their own. Hang in there, you can do it!
Thats life. Your going to have ups and downs. You have to keep pluggin forward and making your life better. Do something that makes you feel good and rewarded. Maybe you just need a good joke to get you laughing. Like, did you ever meet a girl who was so fat the back of her neck looked like a pack of hot dogs? HA!
Yep, we've all had one of those days. This is the time you have to treat yourself even better by doing your favourite things. Just hang in there. It will get better. Trust me.
Your life needs to have a meaning. What do live for? What does motivate you to go to work, or to study?
For some people, is God, for others, their family, for others, the future, the ambicious to have a better life, be the best, enjoy the time. What's yours?
Everyone has been in the same situation, they find their strenght in their motive to live (God, familiy, etc). You need to find your strenght, your motive to live.
Just think that there are a lot of persons with less benefits that you have (health, place to live, something to eat, clothes to wear, your 5 senses)
If you can not find yourself, this depression will come back. So, you are young, just define yourself!! Do you think that a girlfriend will help you to feel better? why? because you need someone to love you or because you need to love someone?
You don't want to give up, you wrote a question looking for an answer, but NO one can give you the answer. It's in you! You have to find it by yourself. Every one will tell you their strenght, positive ideas, but YOU ARE THE OWNER OF YOUR WORLD.
I am sorry you feel this way. I hope things start looking up soon.
Until then - instead of looking at what you don't have, and won't have, look at what you do have. I know that won't help too much, however, it makes us re-evaluate what we have in this world.
I am sorry you are having these problems, with school, work, family and yourself. Don't give up - just keep trying. Be a fighter for what you want. Not physically - or out of anger. I mean - be determined to get what you need. We find in life that we have to defend for ourselves, and sometimes that is all we have to give. When you think you feel like giving up - you will always have a little more to give - and then when you look back on the whole situation, you realize that you faught so much harder, and it was your determination to get through.
Good luck, and I hope things start getting better for you.
Do you have any friends you can talk to? Maybe you should try to reconcile with your parents. I don't know what happened with them - whether it was their fault or yours. However, you be the bigger person, the stronger person, and talk to them. Maybe they can help you out.
It is a good thing you didn't take that illegal job - that shows that you are looking out for your future. Yes - it might have expanded your bank account and made you happier. Only - it would have broke your bank account, your happiness, and your future really quickly. It would have been found out. Keep your head up, stay legal, and best of luck.
Sounds like you are having more then just a bad day. Do you get depressed often? Have you any health insurance, I would suggest you tell you Doctor how you feel. SOOOO many people suffer from depression, so don't feel alone! I felt like that for years and when I decided to acknowledge it and get some help was the best thing I did for myself. Things do get better, I promise you!
I believe everything happens for a reason, and that it is a good thing that you don't have a GF right now, you said you have no money and girls like to be taken out. Focus on school, it seems important to you, if it weren't then you would not be worrying about financial aid, right. As far as the cans at work can you tip them up side down before you crush them so that you don't flood the room or is that impossible? Try and laugh, watch a funny movie, read a book (which I don't think being in college you would want to read another one...lol) anything that will make you laugh, setting off those endorphins will get you through today! Your young yet, so enjoy life; try not to be so stressed, and remember you could have it worse! Take care and stay away from illegal jobs!
Listen to "Everybody hurts" and understand that you are neither alone or all that special... Well you ARE special... just not alone in feeling this way.
Go help someone else worse off than you, and get your mind off your troubles immediately in the process...
hey.its ok we all feel this way and yes it does suck. i stayed home to day from school (i'm a freshman in high school) i kind of had a breakdown this morning with everthing gong on in my life. it'll gte better i'm sure your a great guy and any girl would be happy to be wiht you. you just have to put yourself out there and you'll find soemone. my parents are getting divorced soona dn i feel like crap with that and my very low sel-esteem issues. you can do what you want with your life, be unhappy and let things be or do something with your life. go out there meet new people, more freinds that you can have instead of family. everone needs soemone to talk to (i know i do) let your feelings out, tommorrow will be better and your definetly not selfish so dont listen to them.
good luck, it will get better i promise
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